I was invited to be a leader in a as everyone knows the "fortune" 100 strong
companies, in the state of New Jersey workshop. Facing the new crop intern
all-day events. At one point in my lecture, I talked about the reason we took no
action is in many aspects. Many excuses, we create a delay or postpone our
success.
I talked about how we have a bad habit of "rationalization" why some
things cannot be done or completed. We delay, because we convince ourselves,
thought: it can not be completed, I don't have enough time, I have too much has
been done, I'm short of money, now is not a good time, ill my dog I am not now
any mood, I am not clever enough, I have no,,, and so on, qualification... Etc.,
etc.. Thoughts of you! We rationalize, why can not we go.
Have you thought
about breaking up the word "rationalization"? In his ability to 'rations. This
is what we do, we come up with excuses, why can't we do something, or why what
needs to be accomplished, we haven't started. We feed their lie small daily
doses of their own situation, we convince ourselves not to take action.
Later
the leadership in the workshop, a student asked a question, how to network to
his current focus area outside of work. I answer, ask him what is to stop some
of his disorder. He answered a series of why he can't do this excuse (office is
not in the same building, it is difficult to get the holder, which is a big
company, etc.). However, every excuse, I do not hesitate to point out his, just,
an excuse. These inconveniences, rather than a hindrance. Great
differences!
Then, I doubt his commitment (i.e. how bad, he wants it to
change). He stared at me the way, that he got a point. You can see his excuse,
no network and his team are effective. He was "reasonable" why didn't he do
that.
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